Our Team

Divorce Support Group Warrenton

Liz Danielsen

Reverend Liz Danielsen, Chaplain, who is the Executive Director, President and CEO, is an ordained minister and completed her pastoral education with an emphasis on hospital and hospice ministry. She obtained her certification as a Bereavement Facilitator as well as her Death and Grief Certification. Liz’s pastoral education training was done at Somerset Medical Center in Somerville, NJ. She has been on staff and has ministered as a Chaplain at Newton Memorial Hospital and The Karen Ann Quinlan Hospice in New Jersey, as well as The Hospice of the Piedmont and Culpeper Regional Hospital in Culpeper, Virginia.

Out of her work with people of all ages, she saw needs that were not being met to support those who were chronically ill, dying, grieving, experiencing personal losses and those who journey with them, so she founded Spiritual Care Support Ministries, Inc., and opened the ministry center in Warrenton, VA in 2004. Chaplain Liz provides overall direction for the work of SCSM, while continuing to work individually with people who come for help who are in need of healing. She also conducts support groups, training sessions, and retreats. When invited, she also preaches and shares the ministry of SCSM at churches throughout Virginia, the USA and overseas. Elizabeth Danielsen was married for over 50 years to Arvid Danielsen. They have three children and eight grandchildren.


Danette Jennings

Our Center Director, Danette Jennings, enhances the Executive Director’s effectiveness by providing a full range of office management support to facilitate the efficient day-to-day operation of SCSM.  People are drawn to Danette for her smile and the creativity she exhibits in her work (as well as her wardrobe).  With an excellent eye for detail, she maintains the company website; assists with the creation of, and provides editorial review of, all SCSM materials; creates and updates Policies and Procedures for the center; manages our donor engagement which involves keeping track of all donor activity, sending acknowledgement letters, and database maintenance; assists the Executive Director with Finance and HR, and a myriad of other projects in support of SCSM.


Anna Hansen 

Anna Hansen is our Marketing Coordinator here at SCSM.  Anna plays an integral role of marketing SCSM and all of our upcoming events. She promotes our community presence and online exposure by creating and designing our marketing campaigns (groups, events, and training), social media platforms (Facebook and Instagram), promotional materials (brochures and flyers), and newspaper submissions.  She is also responsible for the creation of SCSM’s quarterly newsletter which is sent over 4,000 people in our local community and world-wide. Anna’s wonderful creativity will be seen as she enjoys making our materials eye catching and engaging to help bring those in need to the center.


Pam Stilton

Pam Stilton is our Resource Development and Counseling Coordinator.  In the role of resource development, she is responsible for grant research and submission; creating and implementing successful fundraising opportunities; and public relations which includes reaching out to and working with individuals, businesses, schools, and faith communities, etc., to determine how we can help them, whether it is through our services provided here at the center, or setting up offsite seminars and training for them.

In the role of counseling coordinator, Pam manages the calendar for the Executive Director and our 15+ counselors; schedules client appointments, with a special knack for making sure each client is matched with the counselor who will be the best fit; and client intake and file management.


Debbie Dallesandro

Debbie Dallesandro is our Community Outreach and Volunteer Coordinator, managing SCSM’s 90+ volunteers. Debbie’s three main areas of responsibility are 1) Community Outreach – coordinating volunteers for distributions of marketing materials to local communities, 2) Home Outreach – coordinating volunteers for prayer/visitation for the homebound, and 3) Volunteer Services, which includes recruitment, coordinating the day-to-day volunteer projects as well as special events, managing the volunteer calendar, and keeping track of all volunteer hours and miles. She is also responsible for various administrative aspects associated with the volunteers such as coordinating the distribution our quarterly newsletter mailings, as well as sending out a weekly communication to keep all of our volunteers updated on the upcoming opportunities and needs of the center. Debbie has a true heart for people and enjoys working closely with and getting to know our wonderful volunteers.


Carol Soaper

Our Center Office Assistant, Carol Soaper, provides administrative support to the entire team here at SCSM, lending a helping hand wherever it is needed, as well as being our receptionist, better known as our Director of First Impressions.  Carol greets our guests and clients with her warm and contagious smile making them feel welcome, as well as showing them around the center and explaining all of our services including special groups and events; and answering all phone calls and inquiries.


Board of Directors

Joyce Neth

Joyce is a graduate of Essex College of Business, has four year theological training from the University of the South, Clinical Pastoral Education from Somerset Medical Center, Somerville, New Jersey and Pastoral Care Training from Blanton-Peale Graduate Institute, New York City. She had a staff position at St. Mary’s Church, Sparta, N.J., (required pastoral, spiritual counseling, adult ministry programming). She was a Chaplain at Newton Memorial Hospital, Newton, New Jersey and a Chaplain at the Karen Ann Quinlan, Center of Hope Hospice, Sussex County, NJ. Joyce was the owner of Kwik Kar Lube and Tune center, Coppell, Texas where she received Outstanding Business of the Year Award(1997). She also served as Director, Coppell Chamber of Commerce; Chairman of the Board, Coppell Chamber of Commerce; Board member, Coppell Drug and Alcohol Commission; Board member, Coppell Citizens Advocacy; and Chairman, Retail and Small Business Team, Coppell, Tx. She has also been the Pastor for Pastoral Care and Counseling, St. Nicholas Church, Flower Mound, Texas.


Kathleen Boudwin

Kathleen was the valedictorian, Cheyenne Central High School, attended Stanford University (3 years) and earned a Bachelor of Science in Physical Therapy from the University Of California, San Francisco Medical Center.  She was a Physical Therapist, Virtua Memorial Hospital, Mt. Holly, NJ, caseload varied from critical care to outpatient.  She was also a Physical Therapist at a New Jersey run state home for those with multiple handicaps.  Kathleen has always been very active in her  church and with volunteer activities. At various times she has been nursery director, Sunday school bus driver (over 10 years), worked in musical productions, coordinated outreach activities with other churches, served as a post-abortion counselor and financial counselor.


Dan Astuto

Dan earned a Bachelor of Arts, Southeastern University and a Master of Arts Degree (Ministerial Leadership), Southeastern University, Lakeland, FL.  He has been employed as Youth Pastor, Kingsway Assembly of God, Cherry Hill, NJ., Senior Pastor, Crossroads Assembly of God, Hamburg, NJ,  and as Senior Pastor, Calvary Assembly of God, Pennsauken, NJ.  He Taught Marriage Enrichment Classes at New Jersey Churches Served as Volunteer Hospital Chaplain one day a month at Our Lady of Lourdes, Camden, NJ.


Brenda Barber

Brenda studied at Lynchburg College and Virginia Baptist Hospital School of Nursing.  She joins SCSM with over 30 years of experience in management and finance, working at the Office of the Assistant Secretary of Defense/International Economic Affairs, Porsche Club of America, United Healthcare, and First Virginia Bank – Computer Operations Division.  Her last position, prior to retirement, was 16 years with Fiserv, Inc., managing technical implementations for hundreds of financial institutions. She has received awards from the Office of the Secretary of Defense, First Virginia Bank, United Healthcare, and Fiserv. Brenda is enjoying her retirement spending time with her husband, two daughters, and five grandchildren.


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Jerry “Jay” McCargo

Jerry “Jay” McCargo, earned a BA in Political Science and English from the University of Rhode Island and a MBA in Business Administration from American University. He has professional certifications from the Wharton School of Business at the University of Pennsylvania, the Tuck School of Business at Dartmouth College, and George Washington University.  He has over 25 years of experience as a Senior Executive, and is currently President and CEO of ARServices, an award-winning management consulting firm, headquartered in Alexandria, Virginia, with operations in 14 states and the District of Columbia. Mr. McCargo’s professional accomplishments are rivaled only by his commitment to charitable giving and community support through service. He has personally contributed each year for the past 20 plus years to various charitable organizations and has instituted the “A Day of Service” program within ARServices, providing one day of paid leave per year to afford his employees the opportunity to give back to their communities in ways that are most important to them.

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